'Called in sick on first day... [Now I'm] paranoid my boss secretly hates me': Server fears being let go for missing first day of work, managers say it's just a "red flag"

Author image for Elna McHilderson
Elna McHilderson • Managing Editor
Feb 4, 2023 9:00 AM EST

You know that nervous, but excited feeling you get in the pit of your stomach the night before starting your first day at a new job? Well, imagine if that feeling was actually you getting sick and now you have to call out with a sick day before you even officially have done any work. Sounds like a sticky situation. 

Well, one server reached out to managers on Reddit to get their opinion on the situation after they had to do just that. They already have asthma and then got Strep Throat, which makes asthma worse, so there was no way they could work that day. They were excited to start, but now that excitement quickly turned to dread as they had to call in a sick day before they even started. The sick server comes from a family of restaurant owners who say that she will most likely be fired because of that and won't ever even get to start. 

Managers respond to her worried question on Reddit with mixed answers—though most of them agree that calling out on the first day is at least a red flag. See the responses below! 

Add as a preferred
source on Google
Advertisement
  • 01
    Cheezburger Image 9731945216
    via u/plumpedpumped
  • 02
    Cheezburger Image 9731945728
    via u/plumpedpumped
  • 03
    Cheezburger Image 9731945472
    via u/plumpedpumped
  • 04
    Cheezburger Image 9731945984
    via u/plumpedpumped
  • 05
    Cheezburger Image 9731947008
    via u/oldfatguyinunderwear
  • 06
    Cheezburger Image 9731946752
    via u/oldfatguyinunderwear
  • 07
    Cheezburger Image 9731946496
    via u/oldfatguyinunderwear
  • 08
    Cheezburger Image 9731948032
    via u/momboss79
  • 09
    Cheezburger Image 9731947776
    via u/momboss79
  • 10
    Cheezburger Image 9731948288
    via u/momboss79
  • 11
    Cheezburger Image 9731950336
    via u/wild_mongoose1600
  • 12
    Cheezburger Image 9731950080
    via u/wild_mongoose1600
  • 13
    Cheezburger Image 9731951104
    via u/NaughtyReplicant
  • 14
    Cheezburger Image 9731950848
    via u/NaughtyReplicant
  • 15
    Cheezburger Image 9731951360
    via u/NaughtyReplicant
  • 16
    Cheezburger Image 9731951872
    via u/Santhonax
  • 17
    Cheezburger Image 9731952384
    via u/Santhonax
  • 18
    Cheezburger Image 9731952128
    via u/Santhonax
  • 19
    Cheezburger Image 9731952640
    via u/Santhonax
  • 20
    Cheezburger Image 9731953152
    via u/spirit_of_a_goat
  • 21
    Cheezburger Image 9731952896
    via u/spirit_of_a_goat

Want More? Follow Us and Add Us as a Preferred Source on Google.

Tags

management FAIL Blog r-managers toxic-manager jobs fired manager employee-drama server waiter work toxic-boss waitress Reddit quitting service industry
Scroll Down For The Next Article